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Insights From Tommy’s Nightmare

Tuesday, November 17th, 2009

This post contains my random observations on my recent series of posts called “Tommy’s Nightmare.” I invite you to share your observations, comments, and questions by responding to this post, sending an email, or commenting on Facebook.

This story vividly demonstrates something I teach in my book, Personal Peace of Mind, How to Live Within The Law of Miracles.

Here is a brief description: 

  • God is the source of all love and wisdom
  • Life is easier when I know God’s thoughts about a situation
  • God’s thoughts always bring joy, peace, love – I call this Peace of Mind.
  • Due to society, religion, or other experiences, I might be afraid to hear from God directly, so I need an intermediary: someone to stand between God and me.
  • Examples of commonly used intermediaries include Jesus, fortunetellers, rabbis, mediums, Fathers, angels, tarot card readers, Mary, palm readers, pastors, medicine men, Mohammad, and Moses.
  • Truthfully, everyone and everything is an intermediary to God.
  • These voices are trustworthy.
  • Since we call flesh and blood intermediaries “mentors,” I call non-flesh voices, such as angels, ghosts, etc., “virtual mentors.”

Tommy’s attacks come from a medical condition called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). I’m not an expert on the medical part of it. However, I have talked with several people who have or previously had the condition. They describe it as a combination of intense fear and guilt tied to memories of previous events.

Tommy’s therapist eases his attacks by playing the roles of virtual mentor and mentor. As a virtual mentor, she eases his fear by showing up in his subconscious during his attacks. As a mentor, she removes his guilt by accepting him. (There is a lesson here for any of us who Desire to help others. The acts of being present and accepting others bring healing.)

Amy’s Mother substitutes as a virtual mentor during one of Tommy’s attacks. This appearance is significant for many reasons: 

  1. Amy’s subconscious isn’t listening to Tommy or her Mother so they communicate to her through each other.
  2. Amy’s Mother is ready to move on and she won’t until she eases her daughter’s worries.
  3. When Tommy learns someone other than his therapist accepts him, his healing accelerates. (As a side note, his attacks have lessened tremendously since Amy’s mother appeared. In fact, the last time I talked to him, he had not experienced another attack.)

Tommy’s experience is consistent with The Law of Miracles. When I reach out in love to another being, I release fear, guilt, and blame. When I accept love from another being, I acknowledge that being as my mentor or virtual mentor and open the door for Miracles to occur in my life.